From choosing an appropriate outfit to figuring out what to say to the family of the deceased, etiquette plays a vital role during funeral services. Although many guidelines are available to help mourners with funerals, burials, and memorials, use of social media may raise a lot of questions. Review this guide for answers to questions about funerals and social media. 

4 FAQ About Social Media Use & Funeral Services

Should you share news of someone’s death online?

Sharing news of a death online may compromise a family’s privacy or put unwanted attention on the deceased. In general, it’s best not to post such news. However, since every situation differs, look to the family of the deceased for guidance. Some families may encourage the sharing of an obituary or funeral service details with members of the community.  

Is it appropriate to post during funeral services?

When you’re attending a funeral, the focus should remain on the deceased and their family. Silence your phone. It’s considered thoughtless and insensitive to share your location, take photos, or make recordings of funeral services.  

Can you provide support to grieving families without social media?

If someone posts about a death on social media, you may feel inclined to respond to share your condolences. However, offering remorse by way of an online comment can often come off as cliche or insincere.

Instead, reach out to the individual privately to express your thoughts by sending a condolence card. If you have no other way of communicating with a grieving family member, opt to message the person directly as opposed to making a public comment.

Should I voice my grief online?

Whether to post about your grief online is a tricky topic, especially if you’re not related to the deceased. Although posting on personal social media accounts may be considered in poor taste by many, there are acceptable ways to voice condolences online. Many funeral homes host online memorial pages where loved ones can gather and share their thoughts in a collective space.

Social media is one of many aspects of funeral planning that can be challenging to navigate. Middendorf Funeral Home is committed to helping families plan funerals and process their grief. Supporting the Northern Kentucky community for more than 150 years, these compassionate professionals will address your concerns about etiquette and grief, providing solutions you can count on. To learn more about their services, visit them online, or call (859) 341-7800 to speak to a member of their caring staff.