When a loved one passes away, many families wonder if it’s appropriate to bring their children to the funeral. In many situations, children benefit from this ceremony because it encourages them to grieve in a healthy way. However, not all little ones may be mature enough for the event and would be better off staying at home with a sitter. If you’re unsure of whether to bring your young child to a funeral service, here are a few factors to help you decide.

What Factors Determine If a Child Should Attend a Funeral?

Relation to the Deceased

If a child was close to the deceased, it’s more beneficial for them to attend a funeral service than to stay home. For example, children who have lost a parent, grandparent, sibling, aunt, or uncle will attend as a way to support the grieving process. However, if the child is not closely related to the individual, bringing them along may be unnecessary.

Age & Behavior

In general, children that are old enough to be in elementary school are mature enough to attend a funeral. Babies are also fine to attend, as they will not remember the event. However, if the child is at an age where they may be disruptive or unable to understand the somber tone of the event, you may be better off having them stay at home with a sitter.

Preparation

Even if they are mature enough to attend, children should never be forced to go to a funeral. If you’re comfortable with the idea of bringing your little one along, have a one-on-one talk to prepare them for the event. Use clear and simple terms, discuss why the event is happening, and what they should expect during the funeral. Since children are naturally curious, encourage them to ask questions.

If your child feels comfortable with the idea of a funeral after learning about it, they are fine to attend. However, if they have reservations about the experience, offer them an opportunity to stay behind if they so choose.

If a loved one has passed away, Middendorf Funeral Home is here to help you make arrangements for a memorable and respectful service. Representing the Northern Kentucky community since the 1860s, this funeral home will craft an event that honors your family’s wishes and allows you to grieve without stress. For more details on their funeral services, visit their website. To speak directly with a funeral home director, call (859) 341-7800.