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Few situations are more difficult than watching a loved one struggle with the death of someone they cared about. The staff at Middendorf Funeral Home understands that the passing of a loved one is an emotionally complicated event, and reminds supportive friends and family to remain attentive and compassionate through this trying time. 

Here, this professional funeral home offers a few tips for helping someone who has just lost a loved one:

  • Acknowledge The Situation: It’s natural to feel uncomfortable about death; it’s okay if you don’t know exactly what to say. Just try to remain in the present and tell your loved one that you are there when they need you. Try to steer clear of general platitudes, as these can seem insincere. Acknowledge that you know their loss is painful and that it’s okay to grieve.
  • Expect The Unexpected: funeral homeMost people experience highs and lows after they have lost a loved one. Try to be there for your friend whenever you can, whether that means answering late night phone calls or inviting your loved one over on holidays, which tend to be the hardest the first time they roll around after a loss. Prepare to offer additional support on the inevitable “low” days by calling just to chat or stopping by in person if your locations allow it.
  • Ask How You Can Help: If you’re unsure what to do to be of assistance, all you have to do is ask. Saying something as simple as “How can I help?” will open the lines of communication and let your loved one know that you are available in any capacity. If your friend doesn’t ask for anything in particular, just be present. Listen and laugh when you two talk about the happy memories, and provide comfort when your loved one is sad about the loss.

Middendorf Funeral Home is the funeral home to turn to when you need help with funeral planning or have questions about cremation. Visit their website to learn more about the funeral home that has been serving Northern Kentucky for more than a century, and call (859) 341-7800 for more information.

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