There is no easy way to talk about death with your young ones. However, when a loved one passes, your child deserves to be a part of the conversation, so they can learn to process and make sense of these emotions. When it’s time to have the discussion, the funeral planning professionals at Neidhard-Minges Funeral Home want you to keep the following do’s and don’ts in mind.

Do:

Answer questions.

Your child may have questions about death, which is a natural response after learning about such a difficult topic. Do your best to answer and stay calm through the conversation. If it seems as though your child is unable to cope or process your answers, seek the help of a funeral planning professional to find a grief counselor.

Keep it simple.

Encouraging conversation is an effective way for your child to cope with the situation; however, aim to keep the dialogue simple and age-friendly. Avoid going into too much detail; your child will let you know if they need help understanding.   

Don’t:

Hide your grief.

Don’t be afraid to show tears and emotion. This lets children know that visual expression of their grief is healthy and acceptable after suffering the loss of a loved one.  

Rely on children to be your support system.

While the support of family and friends is necessary during a period of grief, do not rely on your child as your support system. They are still new to these emotions, and it could put a lot of unnecessary stress on them.
 

So you can focus on your family during this difficult time, turn to Neidhard-Minges Funeral Home in Cincinnati, OH, for assistance with funeral planning arrangements. They will create a plan that aligns with both your budget and the wishes of the deceased. Call (513) 661-3022 today to schedule an appointment with a funeral director or visit the website for more information about their funeral planning services.