When you marry someone that has kids from a previous relationship, you may want to adopt them so that they are legally yours. This is a common process in Nebraska, as family law allows stepparents to adopt their spouse’s children. Below is more information about how to go about doing this, as well as the advantages you can gain.

What Does the Process Entail?

Nebraska family law requires you to meet several conditions to become an adopting stepparent. First, before filing the petition, you must have been living in Nebraska for at least one year, as well as with your spouse and the child for at least six months. Then, you must undergo extensive background checks through the FBI and the Nebraska Child and Adult Abuse Registry.

After completing these steps, there are a few other requirements. Specifically, your spouse must be the legal parent of the child you want to adopt. Then, the child’s other parent must give written consent that relinquishes their parental rights. A child who is at least 14 years old must also consent to the adoption. After you file the petition, the family law court will set a hearing date. The process ends with a private meeting where the judge will sign a decree of adoption to establish the new legal relationship.

How Does Legal Adoption Benefit the Family?

Your adopted children become your legal heirs, meaning that they can inherit your assets if you pass away without a valid will. The children can also take your last name so that everyone in the family shares the same one. As adults, your adopted children can make health care decisions when you are incapable if your spouse cannot.

What Should You Consider?

If you divorce your spouse after adopting their children, you will remain the legal parent. This means that you continue to hold all parental rights and obligations. The courts can only revoke or nullify the adoption in extreme circumstances, and this is not common. Furthermore, you should discuss this process with the children before going through with it. This will prevent any resentment that they may feel if you do not consult with them first.

If you want to adopt your stepchildren, seek help from a family law attorney at The Law Offices of Bromm, Lindahl, Freeman-Caddy & Lausterer. This Wahoo, NE, firm provides advice and representation in adoptions and related matters, including estate planning. They’ve been helping residents with a variety of legal services since 1893, and have earned the AV Preeminent™ rating from Martindale-Hubbell®. Call (402) 443-3225 to schedule a consultation. To learn more about their services, visit them online.