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Navigating a contentious custody battle is arguably one of the most stressful scenarios you can face. Family law attorneys can attest that it’s especially challenging for mothers, who might have a lower earning capacity than fathers, if they’re part of the workforce at all. Whether you’re most concerned about finances, geographical logistics, parenting time, or some other looming issue, you’ll find tips below for securing the best arrangement possible.

How to Approach a Custody Battle

1. Preserve All Correspondence 

Moving forward, ensure that all communication with your children’s other parent is in writing, like texting or emailing, and save every conversation. If your ex leaves you any voicemails, save those as well. Send everything to your family law attorney for safekeeping.

Keep in mind, however, that any of your interactions may be submitted as evidence. Therefore, it’s important to maintain your composure during these discussions. Try to avoid getting emotional, and address only relevant logistics about the children whenever you chat. 

2. Document Every Parenting Task 

attorneyFamily law judges need to know how involved each parent is before they can award custody. You can demonstrate the role that each of you plays in the children’s everyday lives by keeping a detailed calendar.

Every day, make a note of who performed the following:

  • Dropped the children off at school
  • Picked the children up from school
  • Attended a sports practice, game, or recital
  • Helped the children with their homework
  • Got the children ready for bed
  • Actively participated in the children’s lives in some other way

3. Stay Off Social Media 

You will inevitably want to turn to friends and loved ones for support—and you should. Avoid doing so on social media, however, as virtually anything you post could be used in court against you.

In fact, it’s generally advisable to stay off social media altogether until the custody battle has been resolved. Reach out to those you need via email, over the phone, or in person instead. 

 

The family law attorneys at Osborne, Tripp & Schmidt understand just how stressful a custody battle can be for all parties involved. If you’re fighting for your children, you can count on them for strategic guidance every step of the way. Located in Sparta and serving clients across all of western Wisconsin, this firm is comprised of an experienced team that prides themselves on being compassionate, friendly, and approachable. To learn more about their attorneys, visit the website. To request a consultation, call (608) 269-2400.

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