Many people choose to go to bars for first dates. These spots provide fun atmospheres that encourage conversation. However, since drinks are involved, there are a few etiquette rules to follow so everyone can stay comfortable. Here are some tips to help you prepare for an enjoyable night out.

Do:

Eat beforehand.

Drinking on an empty stomach can get you drunk too quickly, making you more likely to discuss subjects you might later regret. Eating before you drink will also help you avoid a hangover.

Enjoy a light meal or filling snack before the date. If you feel comfortable, ask your date if they want to grab dinner before heading to the bar.

Turn to the bartender.

If you’re nervous, ask the bartender for beer or cocktail suggestions at the beginning of the date.

Bartenders are trained to make customers comfortable. Asking them questions about beer and spirits can also trigger an initial conversation with your date.

Don’t:

Feel pressured to drink.

Avoid ordering another drink just because the other person does. There’s no pressure to consume more alcohol than you want to.

If you want to limit yourself, decide on the number of drinks you want to have before visiting the bar. How many you’re comfortable with might depend on how much you ate that day and what you know you can handle.

Pick a spot with harsh lighting.

Harsh or overly bright lighting makes many people feel uncomfortable, especially when they’re on a first date and probably somewhat self-conscious.

Choose a bar with moody, dim lighting over one with harsh fluorescent lights. This contributes to a relaxing atmosphere where you can both be yourselves and get to know one another. 

Schedule your date at The Goat House Pub in Wentzville, MO. They’re known for their enjoyable atmosphere, innovative signature cocktails, and excellent happy hour specials. Owned by two former bartenders, this pub also features monthly events and sports night specials. They even offer outdoor activities to make your night memorable. Call (636) 206-6367 for more information, follow updates on Facebook, or visit their website to review their drink options.