Even as adults, it's challenging to approach certain topics with your parents. One of the trickiest subjects is creating a will; yet, according to estate planning attorneys, it's also one of the most important. Ensure a positive response by following these three conversation tips. 

3 Tips for Encouraging Aging Parents to Create a Will

1. Explain Your Reasoning

The key to a non-defensive reaction is honesty. Let your parents know that your goal is making sure that their wishes are followed after their passing and has nothing to do with an inheritance. Explain that after a person passes away, their estate goes through probate. It's important to have a will in place so that the court has a clear guideline as to how the assets are handled. 

2. Let Them Lead

Bringing up such an important subject may feel as if the parent-child dynamic is flipped. Parents are used to guiding you on such topics, not the other way around. For that reason, avoid making the matter feel like a demand and don't use accusatory language. Be sure to take a positive approach, allowing your parents to explain where they are in the estate planning process without judgment. 

3. Complete the Process First

Anyone who owns property, investments, or funds—including a savings account—needs a will in place, regardless of age. If you haven't already,  create your will first. As a result, you'll know exactly what to expect and can answer your loved ones’ questions about the process, putting any fears or concerns they may have at ease.

If you or your parents need assistance in creating a will, reach out to Bristol Law Office in Roswell, NM. The local law firm has served the legal needs of Chaves County residents for over three decades. From wills to probate, Attorney R. Matthew Bristol is committed to providing a personalized, dedicated approach. Review his practice areas online, or call (575) 625-5284 to book an estate planning consultation.