Social media has become an integral part of everyday life, so it's no surprise many people utilize social platforms to process grief or announce a friend or loved one's passing. However, there is a particular protocol that you should follow before you post, especially when it's about sensitive subjects like death or funeral service. Here are the answers to four of the most common questions on funeral service social media etiquette. 

FAQ Regarding Funeral Services & Social Media 

Is it acceptable to post during the service? 

Social media can be a helpful outlet for grief processing. However, when you arrive at the funeral home, you may want to put your phone away. It is usually considered disrespectful, or at least inconsiderate, to access platforms or post during a funeral service. It may even feel exploitive of other mourners' grief. 

When is it OK to post? 

Social media can be a useful tool to disseminate information. However, it's essential to take the family's wishes into account before you post anything regarding their loved one's passing. Publishing news of a death before you've heard from the family, for instance, might be hurtful. If the news has spread or the family has given their OK, feel free to post an online condolence or memorial tribute. 

What mistakes should you avoid? 

Social media is notorious for fueling comparisons and competitions. This is usually unhelpful at best and hurtful at worst. Don't try to one-up another mourner with a showy post in your expression of condolences or grief. Focus your post on a positive memory or quality of the deceased, and try not to make it about you. Most importantly, be sincere and considerate of other survivors. 

Is it best to send a public or private message? 

Many people find crafting tribute posts with pictures, videos, and memories of the deceased to be a healthy outlet for grief. If you can do so respectfully, it may be appropriate. However, try to keep such posts positive. 

Privately discuss your grief with a friend, family member, spiritual leader, or counselor, as public displays might make coping more difficult for the deceased's other survivors. If you wish to send condolences to the deceased's family, do so in a private message, not as a comment or status update. This is more genuine and authentic and will mean more to them in their dark hour. 

For more funeral service guidance or funeral planning services, turn to TP White & Sons Funeral Home in Cincinnati, OH. This family-owned business has been a cornerstone of the community for five generations, providing residents with funeral, memorial, cremation, burial services, and a grief support group and resources. Call (513) 231-7150 to speak with a caring staff member to determine how they can support you, or visit the website for more funeral etiquette advice.