As you’re making funeral arrangements for a loved one, you may be surprised to discover there are many different types of services out there. Two of the most popular are wakes and viewings. Before you begin planning, understand the differences between the two, so you know which is the right way for your family and friends to say goodbye.

The Viewing

What It Is

This gathering is a more informal event than the funeral service, and it's typically held at the funeral home. In most funeral arrangements, the viewing takes place either the day before the funeral or directly before the service. 

Either the body or a memorial display is shown, where the visitors can pay their respects. People are free to come and go as they like, staying for however long they want to pay their respects and offer condolences.

When It’s Best

Viewings tend to be more popular in the modern-day. Because they are held at the funeral home, the family may find less pressure to prepare their home for guests so soon after their loss. The funeral director will handle the hosting and finer arrangements of the event.

The Wake

What It Is

A wake is typically held at the home of the deceased’s immediate family members or another close relative. During this traditional Catholic service, the family watches over the deceased and prays for their soul. As an ancient Celtic tradition, this practice is designed to offer protection from evil spirits until the deceased is buried. A priest may also conduct a short ceremony by saying a rosary prayer or reciting scriptures.

When It’s Best

A wake is ideal for traditional families who want to follow the Catholic way of laying a person to rest. They can last for multiple days, during which someone should be awake with the body at all times. Some families may choose to hold a wake out of convenience if a close family member is homebound and wants to participate in the event.

Fossum Funeral Home works with families to create funeral arrangements that suit their unique needs in La Crosse and Onalaska, WI. This funeral home will handle every aspect of your planning, from the memorial service to grief support. They are available 24/7 to help you say goodbye. Learn more on their website and call (608) 783-9777 to begin planning.