If it is time to choose a headstone to mark a loved one’s gravesite, there are numerous options available. However, when emotions are heavy, it can be hard to focus on making those decisions. Sometimes, this causes people to make oversights—such as picking out the wrong size or material. The guide below offers advice for selecting the right marker.

How to Choose the Right Headstone for Your Loved One

1. Start Early

Give yourself enough time to research options and make an informed choice. If the process seems overwhelming, ask your support group for their opinions about different shapes or finishes.

Even before looking at markers, you can start thinking about what you would like the inscription to say. This can be a description of what the deceased meant to others or a line from their favorite book or song. 

2. Research Cemetery Rules

Learn what the chosen cemetery allows in terms of headstones and monuments. Some cemeteries have regulations regarding color, design, and size, while others allow all types of grave markers. Depending on what your family wants, switching cemeteries may be necessary.

3. Search for Quality

Since the headstone you buy will be exposed to the elements for many years, avoid materials that degrade at an expedited rate. For example, Nabresina and Portland are both types of limestone that are inexpensive. However, Nabresina wears down quickly, while Portland becomes gray and discolored over time. Certain materials may also make the inscription less clear.

In many cases, cemeteries only allow granite or bronze. If you are concerned about your budget, consider a small yet high-quality in-ground marker. 

Work with Fort Worth Monument to craft a custom headstone that celebrates your loved one’s life and memory. Founded in 1936, the grave marker fabrication and restoration company serves clients throughout Fort Worth, TX, and the surrounding areas, and is known for treating customers like family. Call (817) 625-2721 for a free estimate or learn more about products and services online.