When you meet with a divorce lawyer to discuss a legal separation, dissolution, or divorce, it will help you prepare for this difficult conversation. This will help relieve nervousness and enable you to focus on what the attorney says. Here’s a closer look at how to get the greatest benefit from the consultation.

How to Prepare for a Divorce Attorney Consultation

1. Gather Personal Information

A divorce attorney needs details about your marriage, living situation, finances, children, and goals to give you the best advice. Be ready to provide specifics about you and your spouse, including full names, dates of birth, addresses, phone and Social Security numbers, and employment information.

Be sure to have bank statements, credit card bills, tax returns for the last three years, loan documents, and mortgage or rent statements. If you have a prenuptial agreement or continuing orders for child or spousal support from previous marriages, take those to the attorney’s office as well.

2. Write Questions

A consultation with the divorce lawyer is your opportunity to ask questions. Writing them down in advance ensures you won’t forget anything important. The lawyer should explain the legal process, fees and expenses involved, and a basic timetable. They’ll also walk you through what paperwork will be necessary.

3. Know What You Want

Perhaps you want to keep the marital home, negotiate an equal sharing of child custody, or receive spousal support to complete the education that was delayed while raising the children. Knowing your goals helps the divorce lawyer develop an individualized strategy that’s practical and effective. 

Whether you’re planning to end your marriage or your spouse intends to do so, seek counsel from the divorce lawyers at Ibold & O’Brien. Since 1980, this firm has been advising and representing clients across northeast Ohio in a broad range of family law matters, including divorce, estate planning, and bankruptcy. To request a consultation with a knowledgeable and compassionate attorney, visit their website or call (440) 285-3511.