When a loved one passes, you and your family can honor them with an array of funeral services. Some religions include wakes in the grieving process, which are informal gatherings or visitations that generally occur before traditional funeral ceremonies. Here are a few planning recommendations to ensure this event is heartfelt and respectful.

How to Plan a Meaningful Wake

1. Choose a Convenient Location

While a wake is a somewhat casual event, it traditionally includes a casket viewing to allow guests to pay respects personally. With this in mind, choose a location that’s conveniently located and able to accommodate the casket, your guest list, and any catering needs. Popular locations include funeral homes and private residences.

2. Add a Personal Touch

The atmosphere at a wake is primarily focused on celebrating life, honoring unique accomplishments, and trading memories about the person who has passed. With this in mind, don’t hesitate to include personal touches, including themed decorations with personal meaning, photographs, or treasured heirlooms and souvenirs.

3. Serve Comfort Food & Refreshments

Fancy food and craft cocktails are not necessary at wakes. Instead, offer guests comforting dishes that are filling to warm the spirit and put guests of all ages at ease. Making your loved one’s favorite drink or snack available can also be a sweet way to remember them.

4. Create Quiet Spaces

While a wake is generally a communal event where people share fond memories, everyone grieves in different ways. Make sure your space includes quiet nooks and outdoor areas where individuals can step away and reflect if they need some time to collect themselves.

If you need help planning a beautiful wake, count on Porto Funeral Homes. With 75 years of experience and two locations, this family-run, full-service funeral home helps residents across New Haven County, CT, pay their respects and celebrate life. To discuss your planning needs, call today at (203) 467-3000 for East Haven or (203) 934-5000 for West Haven. For more information on their compassionate approach and unique options, visit their website.