Sometimes, circumstances beyond your control make it impossible for you to attend the funeral or memorial service of a loved one. Thankfully, you can honor their memory and show support to grieving friends and family in other ways. Here are a few ways to let the ones close to you know you’re thinking of them. 

3 Ways to Express Your Condolences from Afar

1. Make a Donation to Charity

Many families request donations be made to a specific charity in a loved one’s honor instead of flowers. Usually, their charity of preference will be listed in the obituary. Making even a small donation is recommended, as it will help respect the deceased’s wishes.

If no charity is listed in the obituary, consider donating to a cause that meant a lot to the deceased. For example, if they loved cats or dogs, donate to the local Humane Society. 

2. Send Flowers & a Sympathy Card

Write a brief, heartfelt condolence message in a sympathy card and attach it to flowers or a plant. You can deliver the flowers and card in person before the funeral or have it delivered to the funeral home on the day of the service. Not only are flowers a symbol of hope and encouragement to grieving families, but a beautiful arrangement also shows that you’re thinking of them.

3. Call or Visit 

You might be apprehensive of visiting a grieving widow or children, but a short visit is a reliable way to show that you care.  If you’re out of town, call and express your condolences instead. With modern technology, it’s easy to set up a video chat, which will make the conversation more personal.

Even just a few minutes of talking and offering encouraging words can provide comfort. Be sure to offer your help in the future, and follow up within a few weeks. 

The knowledgable team at Carolina Cremation Center in Winston-Salem, NC, specializes in funerals and low-cost cremations and can help you honor a late loved one. Whether you need to plan a funeral or memorial service, their staff is compassionate and experienced at selecting the best and most affordable options available. Call (336) 368-4000 or visit them online to learn more about their services.