The death of a loved one is never an easy ordeal. If someone you care about has lost someone they love, they will need your support before and after the funeral as they grieve. Everyone experiences grief differently, but there are steps you can take to help your friend during this sensitive time. 

3 Tips for Supporting a Grieving Friend

1. Know What to Say

While some people have no problem opening up and discussing their feelings, others may be a bit more reserved. You should not force your grieving friend to talk about their emotions, the funeral, or their lost loved one.

However, let them know that you are available to listen whenever they are ready to have a conversation. Acknowledge their loss and express your concern. Then, if they’re willing, let them talk about their loved one. Sometimes they may repeat detailed stories, but that is part of the grieving process. Listen patiently, and don’t offer unsolicited advice. 

2. Provide Practical Assistance

Supporting a grieving friend can go beyond the conversation. They may feel awkward about asking for help or have difficulty finding enough motivation to do daily tasks. By offering practical assistance, you will make the situation easier for your friend as they go through their process.

Some supportive actions you can take include helping with funeral arrangements, dropping off food, running errands, and helping with housework. Your friend will know that you’re there for them and appreciate the help. 

3. Don’t Judge Them

No one grieves the same way, and while some people can bounce back seemingly fast, others may never fully heal. Over time, they may accept the loss of their loved one and not be filled with pain every day. However, their sadness may remain, especially around holidays or special days that remind them of their deceased loved one. Don’t try to rush your friend into feeling better or encourage them to “move on.” It’s better to allow them to heal in their own time.

Losing a loved one is never an easy experience, but the caring staff at Johnson-Kennedy Funeral Home, Inc. are here to support you during your time of need. For more than 100 years, this funeral home has helped residents in Canandaigua, NY, honor the lives of their loved ones through funeral, cremation, and memorial services. Their directors will help you plan a service that best celebrates your loved one’s traditions, customs, and traditions. For more details about their services, call (585) 394-4280 or visit them online today.