Who will get the children? That’s a common question parents ask after divorce. It’s difficult to predict what the judge will rule but understanding how the custody process works will help you and your attorney protect your interests. Here are the various factors the court will consider. 

3 Factors That Can Impact Child Custody 

1. Living Situations 

Often, the judge will hand custody to the parent living in the family home; they do this because it gives the children continuity and stability, which are important for kids after a divorce. 

If you’re crashing at a friend’s place to save some money, it’ll be a lot harder to get primary custody. Having your own home will help convince the judge that you’re a qualified parent. Also, living close to your ex-spouse will increase your chances of getting more time with the kids. 

2. Children's Preferences

In North Carolina, the judge will consider a child’s living preferences if they’re 10 or older. At this point, the court holds that they can form a rational and intelligent opinion on custody. While the judge will talk to the child to hear them out, their views won’t always be a deciding factor. For example, a kid may prefer one parent because they’re easygoing and have few rules. The judge may not consider this type of guardian to be in the best interests of the child. 

3. Cooperativeness 

Judges often favor a parent who is willing to cooperate with their ex-spouse for the sake of the children. They’ll look at your record of how you’ve collaborated on parenting schedules. They’ll want to know if you interfere with visitations or bad-mouth your ex while the kids are around. The more amenable you are to working with your child’s other parent, the more favorable the courts will generally be to you. 

When you need a divorce lawyer to help with issues like child custody or child support, contact Fulcher Law Firm. Serving Montgomery and Stanly counties, NC, this firm has almost 20 years of experience working with clients in the area. Their attorneys are composed, supportive of each client’s needs, and always available to answer questions. They’ll fight for you while being sensitive to the situation. Call (704) 984-6060 to set up a free consultation with an attorney, or visit the website to learn more.