A funeral gives you the opportunity to honor your loved one’s life with family and friends. As with any important gathering, attendees are expected to adhere to certain etiquette. If you’re preparing to attend a funeral for the first time, follow these do’s and don’ts. 

Do:

Dress conservatively.

Unless the invitation states otherwise, wear neat, ironed, conservative clothing with no flamboyant elements. While you’re probably not required to wear all black, darker colors are usually preferred. 

Arrive early.

If you show up late to a funeral, you may disrupt the ceremony. Show respect by arriving between 15 and 30 minutes early. The more crowded you expect the ceremony to be, the earlier you should show up so you can find a seat. 

Respect religious and cultural customs. 

The ceremony may include religious or cultural rituals you don’t personally follow. Although you shouldn’t feel pressured to engage in practices you’re not comfortable with, witness them respectfully and don’t question them. If possible, research the customs beforehand, so you know what to expect. 

Don’t:

Sit just anywhere. 

While it may not be explicitly stated, the first couple of rows of seats are typically reserved for family and close friends. Casual friends and acquaintances should sit closer to the back of the room. 

Check your phone.

Checking your phone during the ceremony will probably be seen as disrespectful. Unless you’re a family member or close friend who’s been designated to film or photograph the ceremony, shut off or silence your phone and store it in a bag or pocket. 

Bring very small children. 

Most kids under the age of six or so won’t be able to sit calmly and quietly for the duration of the ceremony. Unless you were very close with the deceased and the family wants your little one to attend, hire a babysitter. If you do bring a baby or small child, leave the room if they begin making noise. 

Are you planning a funeral for a family member or friend? The compassionate team at Northcutt & Son Home For Funerals will help you design a service that celebrates your loved one’s life and honors their final wishes. For over 40 years, the family-owned and -operated funeral home has offered 24/7 assistance to grieving families across Morehead, KY, and the surrounding areas. They also provide funeral pre-planning services. To learn more about their offerings, visit them online or call (606) 784-6491.