When you have a loved one receiving dementia care, holding a conversation with them can be challenging. However, there are still ways to encourage positive interactions. Try these tips the next time you visit your loved one in assisted living.

How to Talk to Someone With Memory Issues

1. Minimize Distractions

The conversation will be more productive if you can maintain their attention. It is easy for someone with dementia to become distracted by sounds or sights. Take them to a quiet location. Turn off the television, close the door, and sit directly in front of them before speaking slowly and clearly.

2. Use Nonverbal Communication

As your loved one has more difficulty understanding words, nonverbal communication will help give them context. Smile, use direct eye contact, hold their hand, or touch their shoulder. Show them you are listening when they speak by nodding, smiling, and pointing your body in their direction. You can also read their nonverbal cues to better understand what they are saying to you.

3. Keep Questions Simple

Complex or open-ended questions can confuse an individual in a dementia care program. Even if they understand, they may have difficulty communicating their answer. Instead, ask simple questions that present two choices. For example, instead of asking what they want to drink, hold up the options in front of them while asking if they would prefer water or milk.

4. Focus on the Past

Dementia affects short-term memory first, so expect that they may have difficulty recalling recent memories. Instead, talk about their younger years. You can jog their memory by looking at pictures or listening to their old favorite music.

5. Follow Their Cues

Some days will be better than others. Mornings might be better than evenings. If you find your loved one is getting frustrated or having difficulty communicating, sit companionably with them and save your conversation for another day.

When your loved one needs dementia care, choose Provident Village at Creekside in Cobb County, GA, or Provident Village at Canton in Cherokee County. Their compassionate and experienced staff provide 24/7 Alzheimer’s care that keeps your loved one comfortable and safe. Learn more about their services online. Call them at (678) 210-7135 to schedule a visit.