Deciding what text to put on a headstone to personalize it often requires some careful thought. The following tips can help make personalizing a headstone a little easier for you.

4 Helpful Suggestions for Choosing a Headstone Engraving

1. Keep it Short

There will be a limited amount of space on the face of the headstone. Much of the space will be used to provide the individual’s name, birth date, and death date. Additionally, the size and type of text you choose can also determine how much free space will be left over. Try to choose a few words, or a short quote, that best encapsulates your loved one’s life.

2. Consider a Line From a Poem

It can be difficult to write something yourself which is why it’s common for families to choose a line from a poem. If your loved one had a favorite poet you could choose a line from one of their poems. You can select another quote from a piece of literature if you think of a line that holds special meaning. The benefit of a custom engraving is that you can add almost anything you choose to the headstone.

3. Choose a Positive Message 

Visiting a loved one’s monument is already a solemn experience so it may be better to look for quotes or phrases that inspire hopeful sentiments. You might also consider messages or phrases that stir up fond memories of your loved one. There are plenty of lines from the bible or other sources of literature that encourage positive feelings. You can use the epitaph to promote feelings of joy or to encourage those who visit the grave to embrace life.

4. Take Your Time

You don’t have to add the epitaph immediately so you shouldn’t feel pressured to come up with something quickly. Take as long as you need and discuss the options with the rest of your family. Taking a little longer to choose a quote or phrase can also give you the chance to get through the worst of your grieving process. This will help you pick something that will be an enduring message.

Creating a headstone is a form of art that takes talent and years of practice. Backed by more than 80 years of service, Hirons Memorial Works Inc. in Mount Orab, OH, can provide you with high-quality monuments and finely engraved epitaphs. They work with a broad range of materials, including stone, metal, glass, and acrylic surfaces, so their compassionate and skilled staff can help you create the perfect monument for your loved one. To browse their headstones, visit their website, or speak directly with a customer service representative by calling (888) 444-6356.