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As you plan your loved one’s memorial service and start writing their obituary, you want to fully encapsulate who the person was and exactly how much you loved them. While writing the perfect obituary might seem daunting at first, consider the following tips to help you make it well-rounded and compelling.

How to Write a Captivating Obituary

1. Start With the Facts

Write down the person’s name, age, date of birth, and date of death. Then, move onto the details of their life. Who did the person marry? Did they have any kids? Where did they grow up?

Also, jot down the date of the memorial service so that anyone who knew the deceased and reads the obituary can send flowers and condolences. Make sure to include the address and funeral home’s name so attendees aren’t confused about the location.

2. Tell Personal Stories

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A good story or two about the deceased can illustrate who the person was. Reach out to the person’s friends and family members for any beloved anecdotes, funny memories, or cherished moments.

Gathering together a couple of well-meaning stories can also help you grieve. Just reading other people’s stories creates a sense of wholeness that makes coping with the death a little bit more manageable.

3. Think About Your Tone

Make sure that the tone of the obituary is positive and spiritual, if applicable. When writing stories and anecdotes, make sure to pick appropriate stories that positively illustrate your loved one. For example, discuss family-oriented stories with humor and a lighthearted nature over stories that illustrate the loved one in a distressing or overwhelming nature. 

 

For more assistance in planning a memorial service, contact Ritchay Funeral Home in Wisconsin Rapids, WI. Since 1957, this family-owned and -operated funeral home has assisted family and friends with planning the best memorial or funeral service for loved ones. From burials to cremations, these professionals can help you plan the perfect service. Call (715) 423-1414 or visit their website for more information about their services. 

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