Flowers are a beautiful way to send your condolences when a loved one passes away. Whether you send the arrangement to the funeral home or to the family’s residence, you want to put together a bouquet that is meaningful and appropriate. Here’s what you should know.

A Guide to Funeral Flowers Etiquette

Should you send flowers to the funeral home or to the family at home?

Flowers can be sent to the funeral home or the family’s house, but there are a few considerations to make before you decide. Larger arrangements, and wreaths should be sent to the funeral home, especially those from a group, such as coworkers or a social club. Smaller bouquets from close family and friends are appreciated at the home, but still are appropriate to send to the funeral home if you decide to. Some people like to send trees and very large plants; however, they can be very difficult and cumbersome for the funeral home to move and transport.  In this case, it might be easier to send them directly to the family’s house.

When should you send funeral flowers? 

As soon as you learn of the person’s passing or when you receive funeral home information, you can send flowers. The florist will ensure that the arrangement arrives on time. If you choose to send an intimate bouquet to the home, you can send it after the funeral services are over to remind the grieving family that they’re still in your thoughts.

Should you send a wreath, spray, basket, or bouquet?

Groups sending one arrangement to the funeral home can go larger with a wreath or standing spray. Everyone can chip in for a more elaborate floral design.

Bouquets and baskets tend to be smaller and more personal. Be mindful of any instructions from the family, as they may make requests about size and style. The florist is more than capable and can help you make these types of decisions as well.

What type of flowers should you send?

There are a few types of flowers that are common, respectful choices. Lilies, roses, carnations, forget-me-nots, and tulips are top options.

Most sympathy bouquets are white or subdued colors like pale pinks, blues, and yellows. Brighter colors like orange should be used sparingly so as not to overpower the bouquet. Again, the florist can assist you with this.

Should you send flowers if you can’t attend the funeral? 

You don’t have to attend the funeral to send flowers. Sending an arrangement is a nice gesture when you’re far away or unable to be at the service in-person. You can also send a card with a short message for a more personalized touch and to let them know you’re thinking of them.

If a loved one has recently passed away, contact the compassionate professionals at Willow Funeral Home, LLC, in Willow Springs, MO. Since 1915, they’ve provided assistance for grieving families throughout Howell, Texas, and Douglas counties. From traditional funeral arrangements to cremations and memorial services, the caring staff at this funeral home will guide you every step of the way. They also provide 24-hour support. Call (417) 469-3141 to begin planning a service for your loved one, or visit them online for their grief and healing resources.