Sometimes, transitioning to a new home is what’s best for your family, so it’s up to you to set the tone and make it a positive experience for everyone, including your children. Work with a professional moving company to take some of the stress off your plate, so you have more time and energy to care for your kids. Use this guide to find out what you can do to help your little ones with the change.

Do:

Explain what’s happening.

Young kids may not understand what’s happening or what getting a new home means. Explain what to expect simply and clearly, and let them ask you questions. If possible, show them the new house or neighborhood so that they can start grasping how this transition will influence their lives.

Find ways for them to be involved.

Get your kids excited about the move by finding age-appropriate ways for them to help. Ask them to go through their toys and pick some to donate to charity, or tell them to come up with decorating ideas for their new bedroom. Once you get to the house, set up their space as quickly as possible to help them feel settled.

Don’t:

Change routines completely.

It’s common for families to stop buying fresh produce and turn the house into a packing zone in the weeks leading to a move. However, too much change can unsettle some kids. Stick to the routines that would be reasonable during this time, like continuing to have dinner together or going on your evening walks.

Let stress get the best of you.

Kids notice when their parents are worried or feeling overwhelmed. If you’re constantly talking about the stress of moving, your children may adopt your emotions and start to view the move negatively. While you don’t need to keep secrets, be mindful of how you talk in front of your kids and look on the bright side whenever possible.

 

Hiring a professional moving company will help you get your belongings safely to your new home while giving you the time and energy to focus on your family. S & S Delivery in Honolulu helps residents throughout Oahu move their furniture, appliances, and even specialty items, like pianos. Visit the website to find out how this professional moving company can help your relocation, or call (808) 833-1857 to request a quote.