After a loved one passes away, the memorial and funeral services can help you and your family celebrate the wonderful life they lived. As you get dressed for these occasions, you should keep a few guidelines in mind to remain appropriate. The following tips can help you pick out an outfit that will express your grief and pay your respects.

Do:

Consider the culture and ask for advice.

In Western cultures, black is the color most commonly associated with funeral services. However, in certain Asian communities, mourners wear white, and some African cultures incorporate red elements.

Don’t hesitate to ask a family member for advice. In some cases, the deceased might’ve provided specific instructions on what mourners should wear that aren’t in line with cultural practices.

Consider the location and be comfortable.

You can gather a lot about how to dress for the funeral based on the location. If it's held outside, it will likely be more casual than if it’s being held at a place of worship. You might be able to wear a black button-down and slacks instead of a full suit.

Also, services often involve standing for long periods, so consider your comfort. Don’t wear shoes that hurt your feet or a dress that you can barely move in. Plan for the weather and bring an umbrella if it’s expected to rain.

Don’t:

Make a statement.

A funeral isn’t the time to make a fashion statement. If you ask yourself if a dress is too short or if a necklace is too flashy, it likely is. 

You don’t want to draw extra attention to yourself based on the way you look or the strong scent of your perfume. Wear muted colors, put away the flashy jewelry and other accessories, and make sure the focus is on the deceased.

Overthink it.

While getting dressed, it’s easy to overthink the situation. You might feel like you need to buy new clothes and look your best, but this occasion is about your loved one. 

Even if you don't have the perfect suit or dress, you won’t raise any eyebrows as long as you look tidy and respectful. Avoid daily attire — like jeans and a T-shirt — and stick to a modest, muted look.

 

Planning funeral services while you’re grieving can feel overwhelming; the compassionate professionals at Boyd Funeral Home in Lonoke, AR, will make the process easier for you and your loved ones. For decades, this family-owned and -operated business has worked with clients to create seamless and personalized arrangements for the deceased, including burials, memorials, and cremation. Create a meaningful celebration of your loved one’s life by calling (501) 676-2375. Learn more about how they will help by visiting them online.