Weddings are a time for celebration, love, and unity while looking to the future. When you've lost a loved one, however, finding the right balance between honoring their memory and fostering a joyous mood can be challenging. Fortunately, there are many ways to commemorate the departed while maintaining the celebratory spirit of your big day. 

How to Include a Lost Loved One In Your Wedding

1. Wear Something That Belonged to Them

For some, honoring a departed loved one is both personal and emotional. While you want to ensure your loved one's presence is felt, you might wish to keep them close to your heart without drawing attention to their absence.

You can accomplish this by wearing an item that belonged to them, such as a piece of beloved jewelry, something they wore on their own wedding day, or even a special handkerchief. If possible, use the piece as your "something old.” 

2. Create a Tribute

Keep the memory of your loved one alive by adding an "in loving memory" section to your ceremony program. Include their name and relation to you, such as "father of the bride" or "beloved friend to the groom." You might also consider creating a photo table that showcases images of them along with photos of you and your partner. You can also use this to include guests who were unable to attend.

3. Toast in Their Memory

What would a reception be without the celebratory toasts? Include your loved one in this joyous moment by sharing a toast in their honor. Invite your guests to raise a glass while you share how important the person was and how dearly missed they are. Celebrating their memory through a toast is a great way to bring the family together for a meaningful moment you'll always remember. 

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