Funeral services can provide much-needed closure as friends and family come together to commemorate the life of the deceased. Proper etiquette at such events is crucial to avoid causing offense or adding to another’s grief. Following a few basic practices will ensure that your participation is appropriate and respectful to the mourners.

Do:

Show up early.

For funeral services, it is customary to show up at least 10 minutes early, or even earlier if a large crowd is expected. This way, you’ll avoid interrupting a procession or eulogy. Arriving early also gives you the opportunity to speak with friends and family before the service starts.

Offer sincere condolences.

Keep your condolences short and sincere. Your goal should be to let the family know that you are thinking of them. Wait respectfully for others to finish their conversation. If you’re in a position to help, ask if there is anything you can do for the family, either at the service or afterward. Such gestures go a long way.

Don’t:

Bring children too young to understand what’s happening.

While children as young as six can understand what is going on at a funeral and sit still for it, younger children typically should not be in attendance. This is especially true for babies, who may become fussy during the service. Consider the disposition of younger children and get a sitter if necessary.

Use your phone.

People use their phones almost everywhere, but for a funeral, phones should be silent and away. It’s inappropriate to take pictures during the service or have your phone ring for a call or text. Before the service, either turn your phone off or leave it in the car.

If you need help planning a loved one’s funeral service, contact Covenant Funeral & Crematory. Serving Chattanooga, TN, for over 100 years, this family-run funeral home offers both traditional and cremation services to help you find a meaningful way to memorialize your loved one. To learn more about their services, visit them online or call (423) 485-0911.