When visiting a loved one’s monument, you’ll want to bring something to leave behind as a token of your love and to make each visit feel special. After a while, flowers might start to feel boring and frustrating because they don't last long. The following items offer alternative and meaningful ways to mark each visit.

What Can You Leave on a Grave?

1. Grave Blanket

A grave blanket typically consists of an evergreen arrangement woven into a covering that’s tailored to the size of the monument. This tradition originates from Scandinavian settlers in the Midwest.

The grave blanket can symbolically keep your deceased loved one warm through New York’s harsh winters. Unlike delicate flower arrangements, evergreen is hardy and withstands the elements. 

2. Holiday Decor

Holidays can be difficult times for those with deceased loved ones. Continue celebrating with them by decorating their monument with holiday-related ornaments.

On Halloween, you might decorate the grave with pumpkins, and you can bring a wreath for Christmas. Extending holiday cheer to the gravesite might help you process your grief and hold onto cherished traditions.

3. Stones

Leaving stones on monuments is a tradition that originated in Judaism. The stones are believed to keep evil spirits from the gravesite. From a practical standpoint, the ritual might’ve resulted from piling stones on graves to protect them from scavengers.

Regardless of its origins, this tradition now extends beyond Judaism and is practiced by people from many faiths. Stones are durable and lasting, making beautiful symbols for your relationship with a deceased loved one.

Create a meaningful tribute to a loved one with Gibney Monument Works in Perry, NY. They’re a locally owned and operated engraving service that provides a range of beautiful headstones and grave markers. With over 65 years of experience, their team will help you create a personalized monument that symbolizes the life of the deceased. For compassionate services to help you through a difficult time, call (585) 237-2750. Discover their monument options online.