When someone visits the grave marker of a loved one, they might leave a memento to pay their respects. While a coin may not be as common as a bouquet of flowers, resting the small memento is a tradition performed around the world. If you’d like to use this practice, read the following guide to understand its meaning.

History of the Tradition

In ancient mythologies, coins were either buried with the deceased or placed on the grave marker so that their soul could have the currency to reach its final resting place. The ancient Greeks believed that Charon was responsible for ferrying souls across the Styx and Acheron rivers and into the underworld. He required payment for his services, and the coin was provided to keep the soul from becoming lost on the shore.

Tradition for Military Members

When visiting a military cemetery, you might notice many more coins left on graves than usual. Other military members often use this practice, and they leave the memento as a sign that a fellow service member has visited the grave.

The visitor’s relationship with the deceased will affect which coin they leave. If it’s a penny, the visitor doesn’t have a relationship with the deceased, but they honor their service and the mourning family. Someone who trained at boot camp with the deceased might leave a nickel, while someone who served with them would use a dime. If they leave a quarter, they were with the deceased when they passed.

Non-Military

While the practice is more common among service members, you may still choose to leave a coin at a non-military resting place. The token is a small and affordable way to show that someone has been to the grave.

The memento can support the family and show that the deceased was loved. A mourning sibling or child will see the coin and know that someone else cares for their lost loved one. Many people choose to leave a coin rather than a bouquet because it lasts longer. If you ever pass a headstone with a coin on it, never take it.

The staff at Gibney Monument Works understands the importance of properly honoring and remembering your lost loved one. They customize beautiful grave markers for the families of Perry, NY, and have 65 years of experience in monument engraving. You can choose a piece from their expansive showroom or have a custom monument crafted to symbolize the unique life of the deceased. See what they offer online, or call (585) 237-2750 to speak with a representative.