Sending flowers is a caring, respectful way to express your sympathies and honor the life of someone who has passed away. There is a certain etiquette around sending funeral flowers, and this simply ensures the wishes of the deceased and their loved ones are remembered and the solemnity of the occasion remains a priority. Below, learn about appropriate funeral flowers to send, when to send them, and how to write a meaningful message to include with the arrangement.

What Types Are Best for Funerals?

In general, it's best to choose flowers that don't require a lot of attention and maintenance. These include lilies, orchids, and carnations. Be mindful of the colors you select. Anything bright—such as a flower in a dyed neon color—may not be appropriate. White is certainly acceptable for funeral flowers, as is any natural, serene color that complements the environment and mood.

You also have several different arrangement styles from which to choose. Wreaths are circular arrangements that are typically supported on a special stand. Sprays can be placed over a casket or displayed on an easel. Container arrangements, such as bouquets in vases or pots, are the preferred funeral flowers for many people wishing to pay their respects.

When Should They Be Sent?

Only send flowers when it feels like an appropriate gesture to make. Consider your relationship with the deceased or their loved ones. A close bond or a longstanding relationship will likely call for an arrangement.

You should avoid sending flowers in certain circumstances, however. If the family has requested donations in lieu of flowers, or no flowers at all, honor their wishes.

What Should Be Included in the Sympathy Card?

The available space on a card accompanying a flower arrangement is usually limited. You'll need to keep it succinct but meaningful. Don't write a lengthy reminiscence on the card, as there may not be enough space.

A simple message is more than appropriate. You can share more in-depth feelings at the service, or you can write a separate letter and send it to the family.

When you send flowers to the funeral home, the team there will receive them, place them, and make certain that the family receives the messages. Ritchay Funeral Home has been serving the families of the Wisconsin Rapids, WI, region since 1957. They offer funeral, burial, and cremation services, as well as funeral pre-planning guidance. Call (715) 423-1414 or visit their website to learn more about their services and schedule a consultation.