Going to a funeral for the first time can be an intimidating experience, especially if you aren’t sure what to wear. You want to be respectful of the deceased and their family, while communicating a sense of mourning. If you’re attending a funeral soon, here’s how to choose an appropriate outfit.

What to Wear

Black is the traditional color for funeral clothes, but any dark color is suitable for a memorial service. As a general rule, men should wear a suit and tie, although dark slacks and a button-down shirt may also be appropriate. During the summer, a dark polo shirt can also be a good choice, but you should bring a light suit jacket in case you feel underdressed.

Women should wear pants suits, skirts, or dresses, also in black or other subtle colors. Many religious traditions require clothing to cover the shoulders and knees, but you should dress conservatively even for a secular service.

What to Avoid

Most importantly, avoid wearing bright colors or shiny jewelry to a funeral. These combinations can be distracting.

However, wearing white accent pieces underneath darker clothes is usually acceptable. For instance, a white shirt under a dark suit is standard funeral attire, and white stripes on a dark skirt can be tasteful.

Whatever you choose, avoid wearing t-shirts, jeans, or other casual clothing unless the family has specifically requested you to do so. If you’re unsure whether a piece is formal enough, choose the option you’d feel most comfortable wearing to church or a job interview.

If someone you love has passed away, the caring team at Johnson Funeral Home in Monroeville, AL, will help plan a memorial service that celebrates the life you’ve lost. They’ve been serving families for over 65 years and are here to help when you need them most. Visit their website for more on their service options, or call (251) 575-3222 to speak with a compassionate funeral director.