Youth sports offer an opportunity to learn countless skills that you can use throughout life. Sportsmanship is one of the most significant aspects that a young person can learn. When coaches and parents provide excellent examples, youth sports is the ultimate training ground. Below are a few traits that adults should model.

Do:

Set clear behavioral expectations.

Establishing expectations upfront will help children understand what behavior is acceptable. Many programs have sportsmanship contracts requiring participants to refrain from cheating, criticizing or taunting others, or showboating. Let your child know that you will not tolerate these actions either, and make sure you do not partake in them. Clear expectations will help eliminate confusion or contention.

Model positive behavior yourself.

Parents and coaches are the biggest influencers on a child’s behavior in a sports program. You can espouse the values of sportsmanship, but if you don’t display them yourself, the kids won’t listen. When you model positive behavior no matter how the game is going, the children will follow your example. If your child does show a negative attitude, speak to them calmly, and explain why it is wrong. Do not chastise them in front of their team.

Don’t:

Blame or criticize others.

It can be easy to blame or criticize officials or your teammates for a loss. However, these excuses never turn out well. Teach children to focus on doing the best they can, regardless of what happens. Instead, they should always focus on giving their best performance. Congratulate your child on how they played, no matter what the outcome is.

React to negative behavior.

Children will likely encounter others who display poor sportsmanship during their time in youth sports. Teach children that they shouldn’t respond with similar rude behavior if someone else is cursing or taunting them. This could easily lead to a problematic confrontation. They should inform a coach or official of the disturbance, and continue playing positively.

 

With basketball programs for boys and girls ages 5 to 18, Go Hard Basketball in St. Charles, MO, puts youth sports in a faith-based setting to help teams and individuals improve their athletic abilities and sportsmanship. To learn more about their affordable and enriching youth activities, call (314) 723-5604.