Many funeral services have deep roots in symbolism and tradition, and the family of the deceased usually expects the guests to respect this. You don’t want to embarrass yourself or insult anyone by over- or under-dressing, which is why you should follow proven guidelines. Below are several tips to help you pick out the right funeral attire.

Do:

Choose business casual.

For men, this means a suit jacket, dress pants, collared shirt, and tie. For women, a pant-suit, skirt-suit, blouse, or sweater are appropriate. Remember, if you wouldn’t wear it to a business meeting, the workplace, or a formal affair, don’t wear it to the funeral. This ensures you remain respectful and do not draw attention away from the funeral service.

Stick to dark colors.

You should also keep the colors neutral. Black is a preferred color because it symbolizes mourning and is a sign of respect. However, you don’t have to go out and buy new clothing if you do not own anything black. A dark blue sportscoat or sweater is also appropriate. Brown or khaki slacks are safe as well.

Don’t:

Ignore cultural attire.

Respecting the deceased’s faith is essential, which may mean wearing culture-specific clothing—even if you don’t practice. At a Jewish funeral, the family may ask men to wear skullcaps and women to wear head coverings. Islamic funerals prefer a plain shirt and pants for men and a long-sleeved, high-necked, ankle-length outfit for women. If in doubt, ask a local religious leader or the family of the deceased.

Over-accessorize.

Avoid the temptation to liven up your black funeral attire with accessories. Large necklaces, colorful shoes, vibrant handbags, or bulky jackets are distracting. You don’t want your outfit to interrupt or draw attention away from the deceased and ceremony, so keep accessories plain and to a minimum. A small watch, bracelet, or necklace is sufficient.

If you’ve recently lost a loved one and need help planning a funeral service, contact TP White & Sons Funeral Home. This family-owned funeral home has been serving Cincinnati, OH, for five generations, providing burial services, cremation, memorial services, and more. They know how difficult loss is and can direct you to grief support groups. Call (513) 231-7150 to schedule a consultation. Visit the website to learn more about their services.