Many people stay connected to friends and family through social media. It allows people to express their feelings, receive emotional support, and stay updated with one another from afar. It might seem natural to share your feelings about the loss of a friend and to share news about a funeral. However, sometimes a post can upset the loved one's family or seem insensitive. Take a moment to go over these guidelines before you post.

A Guide to Social Media & Memorial Services

Should You Post About the Funeral?

The closest family members of the departed come first. If they have asked guests not to take pictures of the memorial, respect their wishes and put your phone away.

You should avoid posting about the service without explicit permission from the family. Don’t invite or tell anyone about it without asking first.

Where Can You Express Your Feelings?

If you need to talk about your loss, do so in private with those close to you. You should always seek support from people who were further from the event than you. Meanwhile, extend your support to those who were closer, like direct family members or significant others.

Sharing your feelings online can be appreciated if the family asks for it. Some even create hashtags to curate a digital scrapbook of memories. Otherwise, keep your emotions in private conversations with close friends or a therapist.

What Should You Say?

If you're invited to participate in a memorial wall, or if the family has approved social media posts about the funeral, you should still be respectful and sensitive.

Offer your heartfelt feelings and your condolences, especially thoughts that will help others who are also grieving. Avoid cliches and religious beliefs, especially if they differ from the family’s faith. Sharing your favorite memory of the deceased is often the best way to show your sentiments online.

If you need help planning a meaningful and respectful memorial service, including obituaries and online announcements, call Cornwell Funeral Home. Based in Dardanelle, AR, this locally owned establishment has served Yell County for over 120 years and has been passed through four generations. You can contact them at (479) 229-2524 or reach out online.