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While most children experience moments of shyness, such as when they are introduced to new people or attend their first preschool classes, some are naturally more reserved. Instead of feeling concerned over your toddler or preschooler’s shyness, remind yourself that there are many ways to help the little one become socialized.

What Are Common Causes of Shyness?

How bashful a child appears often has to do with the young one’s age. It is not uncommon for toddlers and pre-K children to experience shyness when they are exposed to new situations and people. Kids in pre-K through third grade may experience separation anxiety, but they typically adjust to their surroundings with positive encouragement.

Some children appear shy simply because they warm up to others slowly or have more introspective personalities. If your child seems happy most of the time, the shyness will likely lessen as they get older. However, sometimes shyness indicates a deeper problem, such as a traumatic memory or behavioral issue.

Such children may not want to attend school, become anxious about social situations, or have problems playing with others. If you believe your child’s shyness extends beyond normal separation anxiety, identify the trigger causing the issue.

For example, if your child always becomes shy when you go to the doctor, they might be reminded of a previous visit where they received a painful shot. Depending on the severity of your child’s shyness and related anxieties, you might want to seek professional help.

What Are Some Ways to Encourage Socialization?

preschool classesEnjoy helping your child socialize--never reprimand or yell about shy behavior. Help the toddler or preschooler get used to different people and settings by exposing them to public situations regularly. Go grocery and retail shopping with your child, and visit parks, playgrounds, and the community library.

The more your child gets used to social scenarios, the less overwhelming they will seem. Be a good example for your child by conversing with others and showing them that there is nothing to fear.

Make positive remarks every time your child engages with other children or does well in preschool classes to help increase confidence and outgoing traits. Also, encourage your child’s favorite activities, such as crafting or playing sports, to help them spend time with children who have similar interests since commonalities often spark conversations.

 

Learning Through Play Cafe, Inc. encourages socialization with an indoor playground, weekly arts and crafts, children’s parties, and preschool classes. The children’s center serving the Cincinnati, OH, area also has a coffee shop on premise for parents to enjoy. Call (513) 847-8133 for package information or learn more about preschool classes online. Get the latest center updates on Facebook

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