After a loved one dies, planning a funeral can seem like an afterthought. However, with a clear strategy and the help of supportive friends and family, you can create a beautiful and touching ceremony that'll honor the memory of the person who has passed. Here are several steps to follow when planning a memorial that celebrates life and legacy.

Funeral Planning Checklist

1. Contact the Funeral Home

First, you'll need to call the funeral home and let staff know about your loved one, as they'll handle the transportation of the body. The funeral director can also assist with paperwork to complete death permits as required by local and state guidelines.

2. Notify Family Members & Others

As soon as possible, let immediate family members know about the person's passing. You can also ask a close relative or trusted friend to make these calls if you're not up to the task. Coworkers, friends, and other individuals who were close to the deceased should also be notified. The sooner you let people know, the easier it'll be for them to make plans for the funeral.

3. Consider Funeral Options

Next, sit down with the funeral director to select the funeral's date and make the formal announcement. You'll also need to discuss your preferred type of memorial if your loved one didn't leave plans. The options range from a traditional service with a viewing and grave-site memorial to a cremation. If you're unsure, a funeral home staff member can go over choices that fit your budget and personal preferences.

4. Enlist Support

Depending on the type of service, you can ask a close friend or relative to deliver the eulogy. The memorial can also be tailored to include songs, scripture readings, and personal remembrances. Additionally, you may need to choose an officiant to preside over the service, such as a pastor, rabbi, or imam, or even a friend.

Porto Funeral Homes helps families navigate this difficult process by offering compassion, professionalism, and impeccable attention to all the details. Serving New Haven County, CT, since 1931, you can trust them to plan a memorial befitting of your loved one. Should you ever need the funeral home’s services, call (203) 467-3000 in East Haven or (203) 934-5000 in West Haven. You can also visit their website and Facebook page for extensive funeral planning information.