Visiting a cemetery is often an emotional experience. If you’re planning to visit a gravestone, there are several ways you can respect your loved one’s memory and those around you. Here are some basic etiquette suggestions that may prove helpful.

What Should You Do When Visiting a Cemetery?

1. Research the Rules

Most cemeteries have regulations, so look up the location’s website before the visit. For example, there may be restrictions on holiday decorations or how far from the gravestone you can plant flowers. Some sites don’t permit lights, candles, or glass.

Knowing this information helps you plan for the visit and honor your loved one in an appropriate manner.

2. Be Mindful of Other Graves

Avoid touching other gravestones as you walk to your loved one’s site. Older monuments may require some repair work and shouldn’t be disturbed.

If your children are with you, remind them to treat each memorial with the same dignity and respect as they would extend to a person.

3. Watch for Ongoing Services

Depending on when you visit, there may be a burial service in the vicinity. This is an extremely emotional moment for a family, so be mindful of their need for space.

Step courteously out of the way if they are nearby, and make sure you aren’t in the path of the procession. Keep your cell phone turned off to prevent disruptions. If you have young children with you, it may be best to return when the burial is complete.

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