A memorial service is a lovely way to gather friends and family together to honor the life of a loved one who has passed on. These types of ceremonies don’t always occur immediately after the person has passed, but that doesn’t mean you will be able to attend. Whether the timing is off, the cost is too high, or the distance is too far, there are still some ways you can show love for the deceased and support for their surviving loved ones. 

How to Support a Loved One if You Can’t Attend a Memorial Service

1. Donate in the Name of the Deceased

If the decedent had a charity or passion they cared about, you could donate in their name. Occasionally, the family will request a donation on behalf of their lost loved one or to cover the cost of the memorial service. Providing financial support to the family’s cause will show that you care.

2. Send Sympathy Flowers

Flowers are usually expected and appreciated for memorial or funeral services. They are a show of support to the deceased’s family that they can take home or leave at the gravesite. The best benefit of sympathy flowers is that you don’t have to be present to give them to the recipient. You can have an arrangement delivered with a personal message, even if you’re not in the area.

3. Video Chat

If you can’t make the ceremony but still want to participate, you could consider video chatting with your friend, who is in attendance. Though you physically won’t be in attendance, you can still celebrate your loved one in real time with the family. You can witness the event, and people can talk to you directly. 

4. Plan to Visit When You Can

If you can’t attend the service because of a timing issue, you can still plan to be there for the family when your schedule frees up. During a memorial or funeral, the family will likely be surrounded by loved ones. However, there may be a lull afterward where not as many people come around. If you can visit the family once everyone has moved on, your presence will be much appreciated.

If you need to plan a memorial service for a loved one, turn to the compassionate team at Northcutt & Son Home for Funerals. Located in Morehead, KY, and serving Bath, Carter, Menifee, Lewis, Morgan, Montgomery, Fleming, and Rowan counties, this funeral home is dedicated to helping families throughout the area celebrate the lives of their loved ones. They offer memorial, cremation, and funeral services, and they honor all religions, denominations, and nationalities. Their caring staff is available 24 hours a day to support you. For more information, call (606) 784-6491 or visit them online today.