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A funeral or memorial service is a fantastic way for loved ones to honor a person’s passing and work through the grieving process. However, since it’s such an emotional experience, many people struggle with the decision of whether they should attend the service. This guide is designed to help people decide if they should go to a funeral.

When It’s Recommended to Attend a Funeral

Since one of the goals of a funeral is to create a safe space of bereavement, a person should never attend if their presence would create a disruption or distraction. When there’s no potential of disrupting the service, there are numerous reasons to attend. The most obvious is when the deceased was a close friend or family member, because it gives you a chance to share your condolences with other individuals.

It’s also recommended to go when you have a close relationship with one of the bereaved attendees to support them through this difficult time. If you weren’t very close to the person who passed, you could still attend to pay your respects. However, check with the funeral director to ensure it is a public service prior to going.

The same goes for public figures who have passed. If the funeral service is public and you had an interest in their work, it’s a great way to pay your respects to the person and those who are most affected by the loss.

Proper Etiquette When Attending a Funeral

FuneralIf you decide to attend, there are certain things to do to pay your respects without causing any disruptions to the service. Always arrive at the funeral home early so you don’t cause any delays. Also, if there is a registry, sign in with your first and last name and your relationship to the deceased. When family members are greeting people as they arrive, keep the interaction brief and tonally appropriate, then quickly find your seat.

During the service, don’t chat with those around you, and don’t eat or drink during the service. Turn your cell phone off to avoid loud disruptions. Unless otherwise instructed, you shouldn’t take any pictures either. Many people will be grieving their loss, so taking and sharing photos during this time is inappropriate.

 

Losing a loved one is a stressful experience, but the experts at Melvin T. Strider Colonial Funeral Home in Ranson, WV, can help with their funeral planning services. For more than 100 years, this family-owned and -operated funeral home has helped residents create the best funeral possible to honor their loved one. They’ll work with you to ensure the service is fitting for the deceased while making the experience as stress-free as possible. Call (304) 725-7068 to schedule a consultation or learn more about their services online.
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