Creating a parenting plan that works for both parties isn’t always easy. While a couple may be separating on amicable terms, the details about raising their children may take some time to iron out. Simplify the process by considering the following and working with an attorney to reach an agreement.

4 Tips for Creating a Co-Parenting Plan

1. Establish Schedules

Children tend to thrive in routine, so consistency causes them to relax and reduces the potential for acting out. Rather than hoping the other parent maintains the schedule, sit down with an attorney to establish guidelines. Knowing what each person expects could help to ease the tension and allow you to guide your children through the transition.

2. Create Backup Plans

While it’s difficult to anticipate every moment of every day, having a backup plan could ensure that all bases are covered. For instance, if one of the parents has an important event, the other might not feel comfortable about them hiring a babysitter. Instead, it might be ideal to arrange with the other parent to keep the kids for an additional night, or at least until the parent returns from their event or trip.

3. Include the Children

Even though infants and toddlers can’t verbalize their needs and wants, the older children can. Make sure to talk with them prior to meeting with your attorney. Some may want to continue hanging out with their friends after school, while others might have an interest in extracurricular activities. It’s a simple inclusion that could help your kids maintain their routine and a sense of normalcy.

4. Anticipate Growth

Life is bound to change for both parties as the children grow up, so the best way to avoid misunderstandings is to communicate with the other parent. Find a platform that works best, whether it be text, video calls, or email, and check-in with the other parent at least once a week. Keep them up-to-date on any alterations to the plan and be willing to compromise. Working together is the only way to ensure a successful co-parenting relationship and positive growth for your children.

Start finalizing your plans by reaching out to JP Coleman Law, LLC, Attorneys at Law, in Robertsdale, AL. This full-service law firm handles cases in family and criminal law, estate planning, and civil litigation. Each attorney is fully licensed and firmly believes in the value of keeping clients informed. Call (251) 947-6247 to set up a consultation or visit their website for additional information on their services.