The loss of a loved one can be a deeply emotional and isolating time. If you're supporting someone who's going through this experience, attending a funeral is just the first step. You also must continue to be emotionally available for the bereaved as they move through the grieving process.

How to Show Your Support After a Funeral

1. Check in Regularly

A funeral can bring a great sense of comfort, as it provides an opportunity to be surrounded and supported by loved ones. However, once the formal gatherings are over, adjusting to a "new normal" after a loss can feel very isolating.

Reaching out to check in on a loved one is a warm gesture that can significantly reduce feelings of loneliness. There are many ways you can do this, whether it's a phone call, a friendly email, or a handwritten note to let the person know you're thinking of them.

2. Lend an Ear

When someone is dealing with many raw emotions, it can be helpful to talk about them in a safe setting. One of the best ways to provide support during this time is simply by listening and letting them discuss their feelings and memories of their loved one. Remember to hear them out without passing judgment and allow them to get their deepest thoughts off their chest. Feel free to provide advice or input if you're asked, but otherwise, it's best to be a sounding board and a shoulder to cry on, if needed.

3. Invite Them to Social Events

Another way to help ensure your loved one feels less isolated is to continue inviting them to social gatherings. Although they might not wish to attend right away and may need more time to grieve alone first, they'll appreciate the gesture. In time, social outings can provide much-needed distraction from grief and help you and your loved one form a stronger bond.

Losing a loved one is never easy, but the compassionate professionals at Porto Funeral Homes in New Haven County, CT, will help make their tribute as meaningful and dignified as possible. For over 75 years, this reputable, family-run funeral home has provided personalized burial and cremation services with careful attention to detail. Specializing in everything from burial trusts to title 19 benefits, they also provide unmatched guidance and professionalism to support you and your loved ones at this delicate time. To arrange a funeral or learn more about their services, call (203) 467-3000 to reach their location in East Haven or (203) 934-5000 for West Haven, or visit them online.