Discussing estate planning with a loved one is difficult, and you may be unsure of how to approach the topic. Planning for the aging and death of a parent is not an easy process. However, speaking about estate planning and care plans early can encourage your loved one to make a will in a timely manner. 

How to Discuss Advance Care Planning With Your Parents

1. Think About How to Begin the Conversation

It may be intimidating or uncomfortable to begin the conversation with, “Let’s speak about writing a will.” Instead, try starting with a relevant anecdote to lead into the discussion of what your parents want. For example, if a relative died without making a will, you might begin by talking about their situation and how it impacted the family. 

Or, you can ask for your parents’ help in the manner to appear less controlling. For example, “Mom/Dad, I need your help. At some point, I may be in a position to make plans for you, and I don't want to make a decision you may not have wanted.”

2. Listen to Their Needs & Empathize

While speaking to your parents, keep in mind that this also a difficult conversation for them. No one wants to talk about death or dying, so put yourself in their shoes while discussing their needs.

Listen to what they feel, think, or want to do when it comes time to make a will. This conversation could bring up feelings of sadness and regret. Allow them to express this without fear or judgment.

3. Be Patient

Estate planning is likely going to be an ongoing conversation with your parents, not a one-time discussion. Think about the right time to bring up the conversation, preferably when they’re in a positive mood.

Avoid pressuring them to make a will by approaching this subject gradually. Focus on the purpose of this conversation, which is to ease emotion and financial strain associated with end-of-life decisions.

When your family is ready to take the next step in estate planning and make a will, contact Arnold & Stafford in Hinesville, GA. These skilled estate lawyers offer more than 60 years of experience associated with care plans and wills. Let them help your family alleviate the stress related to financial strain. Call (912) 369-4529 to schedule a consultation or visit their website to learn more about the firm.