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Having a baby opens a new chapter in your life, so you and your partner should make sure you’re both ready for the change. There are many factors to consider in the decision process, such as whether you’ll need access to resources like a fertility clinic or financial advisor. The following guide will help you and your partner decide if now is the right time to raise a child.

Are You Both Ready?

When couples have a child, raising them becomes a team effort. Both of you should be 100% on board with the idea. If one of you seems hesitant, have a heart-to-heart to talk about why. You may be able to alleviate each other’s concerns or come to the agreement that delaying the process might be for the best.

It would also be useful to talk about your relationship. If you’re currently dating but ready to commit to a life together, consider getting married before trying for a child to avoid problems with legal rights, taxes, and medical rights.

Discuss Your Future

There’s no way to predict fertility clinicthe future, but you and your partner likely have goals, aspirations, and plans in mind. Consider how having a baby will affect these possibilities.

For example, if one or both of you wish to go back to school, will you have the time and finances to raise a child? If you both work, will one of you take some time off for a year or so, or would you have a family member or nanny watch over your child? Think about whether you’ll be able to give your little one a fulfilling childhood.

Consider the Planning Process

Parenthood is full of surprises, so it helps to be as prepared as possible. Talk with your partner to make sure you’re on the same page about conception, pregnancy, birth, and child care.

Will you need to visit a fertility clinic for in vitro fertilization (IFV) options? Are there any parenting courses you’ll want to take together? Will you have specific needs during labor?

No couple is fully prepared for pregnancy and parenthood, but if you’re ready to work together as a couple, you can create the loving environment your baby will need to thrive.

 

If you and your partner are looking for infertility treatment options, see the compassionate doctors at Pacific In Vitro Fertilization Institute. Established in 1985, this Honolulu fertility clinic offers comprehensive services to help you start your family, whether you’re a same-sex couple eager to become parents or would simply like to begin planning for the future. View their full list of services online. To schedule an appointment with a fertility doctor, call (808) 946-2226.

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