Working with an attorney to draw up a last will and testament is the best way to ensure your wishes are followed after your death, and your loved ones receive the assets you’ve set aside for them. However, even when there’s a will in place, disputes can occur. Fortunately, there are steps you can take ahead of time to prevent disputes of this nature. 

How to Prevent Conflict Over Your Will 

1. Distribute Assets Equitably

Often, when assets are split between multiple siblings, the perception of inequality can lead to conflict. Leaving more to one sibling because they aren’t as well off as the others, for example, can cause rifts among the family. An attorney can help you determine how to most equitably divide your assets so no one feels slighted. 

2. Discuss Tangible Property Ahead of Time

Even if tangible items aren’t expensive or especially valuable in a monetary sense, they can have a great deal of sentimental value to family members. Have conversations with your heirs to determine who is particularly attached to which items, and allow them to choose what they wish to inherit. Getting everyone on the same page now prevents conflicts later. 

3. Discuss Your Estate Plan

Disputes sometimes arise because families have unrealistic expectations about the inheritance they are set to receive. Once you’ve drawn up your estate plan, inform your children and other heirs of your decisions and plans. This prevents surprises, and reduces the likelihood of disagreements about your wishes.

4. Name an Executor

The executor of your will is the person responsible for overseeing the distribution of your estate, including managing the probate process. Failing to designate an executor can cause delays, and create conflict as your family attempts to decide who should be “in charge.” Your attorney will help you decide who should be executor. Many people select their oldest child or the one with the most legal or financial experience. 

5. Make Changes as Needed

Over time, your assets and wishes may change. Whenever you ask your attorney to make changes to your will, keep your family informed of your decisions. Regular updates are necessary to ensure fairness and prevent arguments about what you actually wanted to happen to your assets.

For more than 48 years, Louis C. Noto has helped people throughout the Rochester, NY, area create estate plans, draft their wills, and navigate the legal complexities of estate management. This experienced attorney can assist with virtually all your legal needs for a reasonable rate. To browse his areas of expertise, from divorce to personal injury law, visit his website. To make an appointment to discuss your estate planning needs, call (585) 232-1815.