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The death of a loved one is a difficult time, and it can be easy to forget that grieving someone who practiced a different religion than yours requires sensitivity to his or her customs. The professionals at Abriola Parkview Funeral Home in Trumbull, Connecticut, arrange funerals for people of all religions and cultures, and they can help you understand what's appropriate. 

They compiled this list of customs to help friends and family members respect the wishes of their deceased loved one:

  • Roman Catholic: Before the funeral, Catholics observe a wake, traditionally decorated with flowers and candles. It is appropriate to spend a few moments in private prayer at the church before visiting with the surviving family members. A mass will be performed by a priest, during which a candle will be lit for the deceased.
  • Protestant, Lutheran, Methodist, Presbyterian, Episcopalian, & Baptist: It’s customary to send a sympathy card, food, or flowers to the family’s residence or funeral home. A visitation will usually be held before the funeral.
  • Hispanics: Most Hispanics observe the same customs as the Roman Catholic faith, but wakes might include mariachis, overnight visitations, or a family feast. Personal items or gifts are often laid in the casket to help the departed have a safe journey to the afterworld. 
  • Jewish: Sending flowers to a Jewish family in mourning is not appropriate. A rabbi performs services, and guests are expected to wear dark-colored clothing. Men wear a yarmulke, which is a head covering provided by the funeral home.
  • Buddhist & Asian: White flowers are customary, but red flowers and gifts of food are offensive. Financial donations are appropriate. Only the grieving family wears white. All other attendees are expected to wear black.
  • Muslim: Customs vary, so it’s best to ask a member of the family what’s appropriate. If flowers are an acceptable gift, palm branches, greens, and individual flowers are commonly arranged across the grave after the funeral service is complete.

If you need extra guidance on religious and cultural grieving customs, Abriola Parkview Funeral Home is there to assist. They also offer funeral planning services and prepaid funeral plans for those in the Trumbull area. Whether you prefer cremation or help with eulogies and obituaries, their caring staff will help.

Call Abriola Parkview Funeral Home at (203) 373-1013 today to discuss your options, or learn more about their funeral services online.

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