Moving in with a significant other is a big step forward in a relationship. However, once this decision has been made, start looking for a place that suits both your needs. As you visit different apartments to find a new place to call home, use these steps to smoothly transition into this next phase of your life.

What to Do Before Moving In With Your Significant Other

1. Create a Budget

The budget will be one of the biggest considerations during the property search. Have an honest, detailed discussion about your financial situation and what you can each afford to contribute. In addition to rent, don’t forget to account for the costs of gas, electricity, water, sewer services, power, and insurance. There may also be additional shared costs like cable, food, and other daily household supplies. Set clear expectations from the start about who pays for what.

2. Talk About Layout

Apartments come in all different shapes, sizes, and configurations. Before looking at listings, talk about your needs and preferences. Is it important that the apartment has two bedrooms? Is additional storage needed to accommodate your belongings? Should the apartment have a view, Lanai or other amenities. Ask plenty of questions so that you know exactly which type of apartment to look for.

3. Pare Things Down

If you are currently both living alone, there will be plenty of duplicate items. You probably don’t need two couches or two of each appliance in the new apartment. Work through your belongings together to see which items to make space for in the new home. Getting rid of some duplicate items might also create a way for your to create additional spending money for other things you do need for your apartment.

4. Create a Personal Space

Once you’ve both decided on a place to call home, find a nook where you can enjoy alone time. Designate a small corner or wall space to work on projects, read, or accomplish other tasks. While you two are likely excited to be living together, it’s wise to have your own little spot to unwind.

If you and your significant other are looking for an apartment, check out the homes in Kekuilani Courts in Kapolei, HI. This community is a professionally-managed apartment complex that was established in 1993. It offers two-bedroom apartments with appliances and plenty of storage. Residents have full access to the pool, barbecue area, and other facilities at the nearby recreation center. View images of the property online, or call (808) 674-0405 to schedule a tour.