When attending funeral services, you need to follow the proper etiquette. These are solemn and serious affairs; following the rules will show the proper respect for the deceased and support the grieving family. Before you attend the service, study the following do’s and don’ts to ensure everyone has their moment to mourn.

Do:

Arrive on time.

Walking into a service after it has begun will disrupt it. You want to be in your seat before the funeral director starts talking.

Plan to arrive around ten minutes early, giving yourself plenty of time to get through any traffic or find a parking spot. If an unavoidable issue does occur and you arrive late, close the door quietly behind you and take a seat or stand at the back.

Pay your respects.

After the ceremony has finished, approach the family of the deceased to pay your respects. Don’t take more than a few minutes of their time, since they have a lot of people to talk to. You might want to offer some simple words of comfort or share an anecdote about the deceased they might appreciate. 

Don’t:

Wear inappropriate attire.

Check the service announcement for a dress code and follow it if applicable. Otherwise, clothing should not be colorful or flashy. Wear black or another dark color such as a deep gray or navy blue.

If you don’t know what to wear, dress as you might for a job interview. A suit, with or without the jacket, is ideal for men. Women can wear a modest dress, skirt, or pantsuit.

Leave your phone on.

Ringing and vibrating cellphones can disrupt the service. Turn your phone off or silence it before walking into the building. Your work and other important calls can wait for an hour or two. The person calling will understand why you didn’t pick up right away.

If you have the habit of absentmindedly pulling out your phone and checking it, leave it in your car or bag out of reach. You want to be fully present at the affair.

If you are planning the funeral service for a loved one, Ritchay Funeral Home in Wisconsin Rapids, WI, will help you properly honor them and say goodbye. This funeral home has served the families of Wood County for over 50 years. This full-service home offers cremation and burial services, personalized to suit any religious beliefs and preferences.  Learn more on their website or call (715) 423-1414 to talk with a funeral director.