It can be difficult to describe a person and their entire life in just a few words. However, that’s the basic idea behind an epitaph. If you’re in the process of planning a funeral service for a loved one or preplanning your own memorial, here are some insights and tips to help you make sense of the concept.

What Is an Epitaph?

An epitaph is the short quote or saying that is engraved on a headstone or memorial plaque. The format of an epitaph varies from person to person. Some include a quote, while others offer a description of the person. Some even include the most important roles the person had throughout their life, such as, “wife, mother, and friend.”

How to Write an Epitaph

Headstones usually aren’t that big, so keep the epitaph simple and focus on a sentence or saying that captures your loved one’s life. For example, if their faith was important to them, you might consider a Bible verse. If they had a favorite quote or short poem that captures their personality, feel free to use it as the epitaph.

You can also think about the emotions or perspectives you want the message to convey to anyone who visits their gravesite. It can be uplifting, serious, or even humorous. Choose a tone that matches the character of the deceased.

Finally, consider whose voice you want the epitaph to be written as and who it should be speaking to. Some epitaphs are written from the perspective of the deceased, while others are written as family or friends. Some address visitors directly, while others are more general.

If you’re currently writing an epitaph or planning a funeral service for a loved one, Robert W. Waid Funeral Home in Meadville, PA. The funeral home has been owned and operated by the Waid family since 1900. The experienced and caring team is always available to help families who have recently lost a loved one, as well as those looking into funeral preplanning options. Visit the website to see a full list of funeral service options or call (814) 724-1021 to speak with a funeral director.