Funeral planning is a challenging subject. Many people don’t like thinking about losing parents and will put it off until the last minute. However, with many details that you must set in place, starting the process is beneficial. Below are a few tips and guidelines for bringing this topic up with your parents.

A Guide to Discussing Funeral Planning

How Should You Approach the Subject?

Make them feel as comfortable as possible. It may come as a surprise and leave them feeling uncertain about continuing the conversation. Host a luncheon at your home or ask them over a cup of coffee. Mention that there’s something significant that you want to discuss so that they know this isn’t only a casual visit.

You should also prepare and perform plenty of research. Look at local funeral homes and determine the services that each offers. Providing a few options could show that you care about their input and ease their minds when deciding.

What Questions Should You Ask?

Rather than jumping right in, try to find a way to direct the topic. Ask for their thoughts on a recent funeral or talk about family traditions that carry on throughout the generations. Gently easing into the conversation helps to reduce stress and opens up opportunities for discussion.

Find out if they’ve thought about funeral pre-planning. Present your research to your parents and ask if there’s anything specific that they would like to have. Emphasize the significance of getting ideas on file and how it could benefit the entire family. Allow them to process the information and listen to any ideas your parents may want to discuss.

If you or a loved one wants to begin funeral planning, reach out to Bolton & Lunsford Funeral Homes of Cincinnati, OH. This family-owned and -operated business has been serving the community since 1938. Their funeral directors have the utmost compassion and can assist with arrangements for traditional burials or cremations. Learn more about the services that they provide by visiting the website. Call (513) 661-4059 to arrange a consultation.