When you're making funeral decisions on behalf of a loved one or for yourself, deciding whether to have a viewing can be very complicated. Some people are uncomfortable about this process, while others see it as a way to gain closure. If you're still unsure, review some compelling arguments in favor of viewings below.

Why Should You Have a Viewing

1. Gain Acceptance

Acceptance—one of the five stages of grief—can be hard to achieve for many people, but it's an essential part of the journey. Seeing the body of your loved one is one way to accept your loss. It may even help you gain closure, which can be cathartic.

2. Say Goodbye

If you're concerned that some people attending the funeral will have difficulty viewing the body, schedule a private viewing. The casket will be in a separate room, where mourners can go if they wish to pay final respects. This intimate setting allows loved ones to pray, recite poetry, or just sit with their memories of the person they lost. Everyone approaches death differently, and a private viewing allows for a more personal, meaningful experience when saying goodbye.

3. Begin to Grieve

While it's not the case for everyone, viewing the body of a loved one is an essential part of the grieving process for some. This is why it's often difficult for families to process grief when there are no remains. To a lesser degree, this same feeling may persist when families forgo viewings. The death may lack a sense of finality, which can be disruptive emotionally.

Whatever option you choose for a loved one’s funeral, Porto Funeral Homes can offer guidance. Located in New Haven County, CT, these funeral directors are caring and respectful when it comes to their clients’ needs. They can help you plan a traditional service complete with a viewing, an ash scattering to pay homage to your loved one, and everything in between. Call (203) 467-3000 to reach their office in East Haven or (203) 934-5000 for more information about their West Haven location. You can also visit their website to see a full list of their services.