Funerals are an important part of the grieving process for many families. They allow those who knew the deceased to pay their final respects and share their sympathies. However, if you’re not sure what’s expected of you before attending a funeral service or visitation, here are some common points to keep in mind.

Funeral Etiquette FAQ

What should I wear to a funeral service?

The general rule of funerals is to wear something modest out of respect for the family and departed. Stick to dark and neutral colors, and avoid showing too much skin or including flashy accessories. However, dress codes sometimes vary by family preferences or cultures, so dress based on their wishes.

Do I need to bring anything?

It’s not always mandatory to bring anything to a funeral service or home. However, some friends and relatives do choose to offer sympathy cards, flowers, or food items. Depending on the family’s preferences, you could send your gifts directly to the funeral home or the family’s residence.

Should I talk to the family?

It’s customary for guests at a funeral home to offer their condolences to the grieving family. If you’re not already acquainted, quickly introduce yourself and share your sympathy. Then allow them to greet other guests if necessary. Refrain from making jokes or religious references, unless the family is ok with hearing them.

Can children attend funerals?

Children can attend funerals, and may even receive closure if they were close with the deceased. However, only bring your child if they’ll be able to sit in for the visitation or funeral service calmly. Before bringing them, explain what to expect so they can process the situation prior to the service.

If you’ve recently lost a loved one or are considering future funeral service options, contact the professionals at Herman-Taylor Funeral Home in Wisconsin Rapids, WI. Since 1953, the funeral home has helped families through the entire process of funeral planning, from choosing cremation or burial options to crafting obituaries. The funeral directors will help you plan a service that’s personalized to you or your loved one’s wishes. Visit their website to learn more about memorial planning options, or call (715) 423-5460 to speak with a director.