A cremation urn is a popular way to commemorate a loved one, with a wide array of options to ensure you find something that meets your goals and best represents the person who has passed. However, with so many choices, it can be tough to decide which is right for you. Consider your plans and use the following tips when you make a purchase.

How to Pick Out the Right Urn

1. Purpose

First, determine the final resting place for your loved one's ashes. If you're burying the urn at a traditional gravesite, decoration may not be a priority, and you may instead want a biodegradable urn that'll gradually release your loved one's remains. Similarly, if you plan on scattering their ashes, you may only need a lightweight fabric urn or tube to transport the remains. However, if you plan to display the urn in your home, the following features become more important.

2. Material

Presentation urns are often made of stone, metal, ceramic, or wood. Metal and stone are the strongest, but ceramic and wood are highly customizable, making them ideal for displaying in a home. You may also want to choose a material that represents your loved one's personality. For example, wood could represent wisdom and growth, whereas stone displays strength and endurance. Many families also like to match the material with the interior design features in their homes.

3. Size

You must purchase an urn that can contain all your loved one's remains. Generally, a 200 cubic inch jar is appropriate for the average adult. You can also choose several smaller urns if you want to divide their ashes among siblings, or a larger ornate urn to be the centerpiece on a mantle or living room display table.

4. Customization

Urns come in countless shapes ranging from religious symbols to animals and objects. This allows you to pick one that represents your loved one and will remind you of them. For example, you might want to choose an urn with a crucifix for a religious family member, or a boat or airplane if your loved one was a hobbyist. You can also select a standard urn and have a message engraved on it.

If you’re looking for the perfect urn, Porto Funeral Homes is proud to offer a large selection. For 75 years, they've helped families say goodbye to their loved ones and commemorate their legacies. Their compassionate staff can also help with funeral services and planning. Call (203) 467-3000 for their East Haven, CT, location, or (203) 934-5000 for their West Haven office, and learn more about their services online.